The Mind and Heart of the Negotiator, Seventh Edition
By Leigh L Thompson
Contents:
Preface 17
About The Author 20
Part I Negotiation Essentials 21
Chapter 1 Negotiation: The Mind And The Heart 21
The Mind And Heart 22
Relationships Versus Economics 22
Satisficing Versus Optimizing 22
Short- Versus Long-Term Relationships 23
Intra- Versus Inter-Organizational Negotiation 23
Low- Versus High-Stakes Negotiation 23
Win–Win, Win–Lose, And Lose–Lose Negotiation 24
Negotiation As A Core Management Competency 24
Knowledge Economy 24
Specialized Expertise 25
Globalization 26
Negotiation Traps 26
Becoming An Effective Negotiator 27
Feedback 28
Strategy 29
Focused Practice 29
Debunking Negotiation Myths 29
Myth 1: Negotiations Are Fixed-Sum 29
Myth 2: You Need To Be Either Tough Or Soft 30
Myth 3: Good Negotiators Are Born 30
Myth 4: Good Negotiators Rely On Intuition 30
Chapter Capstone 31
Chapter 2 Preparation: What To Do Before
Negotiation 32
Self-Assessment 33
Targets And Aspirations 33
Batna 35
Reservation Point 36
Focal Points 36
Sunk Costs 39
Target Point Versus Reservation Point 39
Negotiation Issues 39
Issue Alternatives 39
Multi-Issue Proposals 40
Risk And Uncertainty 40
Endowment Effects 43
Buyer’s Remorse And Seller’s Regret 43
Negotiator Confidence 44
Perspective-Taking 45
Counterparty 45
Are The Parties Monolithic? 45
Counterparties’ Interests And Positions 46
Counterparties’ Batnas 46
Situational Awareness 46
One-Shot Versus Long-Term 46
Transactions Versus Disputes 47
Linkage Effects 47
False Versus Sincere Negotiations 48
Is It Legal To Negotiate? 48
Ratification 49
Time Constraints 49
Formal Versus Handshake Agreement 51
Onsite Versus Offsite Meetings 51
Public Versus Private 51
Scripted Versus Unscripted 52
Single Versus Multiple Offers 52
Chapter Capstone 52
Chapter 3 Distributive Negotiation: Claiming Value 54
The Bargaining Zone 55
Bargaining Surplus 57
Negotiator’s Surplus 57
Value-Claiming Strategies 58
Accurately Assess Your Batna 59
Unpack Alternatives 59
Improve Your Batna 59
Determine Your Reservation Point, But Do Not Reveal It 59
Research The Other Party’s Batna And Estimate Their
Reservation Point 61
Set High Aspirations (Be Realistic But Optimistic) 61
First Offers 63
Anchoring Information Model 64
Anchoring Effect 65
Range Offers 66
Precise Versus Round Numbers 66
Early Versus Late First Offers 67
Re-Anchoring 67
Concessions 68
Reciprocity Versus Aversion 68
Concession Pattern 68
Magnitude Of Concessions 69
Timing Of Concessions 70
Substantiation 70
Power Conversation Tactics 70
Constraints Versus Disparagement 71
“Agreement” Versus “Option” 71
Fairness Arguments 71
Social Comparison 76
Equity Principle 77
Final Offers 80
Face-Saving 80
Chapter Capstone 81
Chapter 4 Integrative Negotiation: Expanding
The Pie 82
Fixed-Sum Versus Variable-Sum Negotiation 82
False Conflict 83
Fixed-Pie Perception 83
Integrative Negotiation 84
Compromise Versus Integrative Negotiation 84
Pareto Optimal Agreements 85
Assessing The Likelihood Of Win–Win Agreement 86
Multiple Issues 86
Add Issues 86
Side Deals 86
Differing Strengths Of Preference 87
Strategies For Expanding The Pie 87
Separate Positions From Interests 87
Perspective Taking 88
Ask Questions About Interests And Priorities 89
Reveal Information About Interests And Priorities 90
Unbundle The Issues 94
Value-Added Trade-Offs (Logrolling) 94
Multi-Issue Offers Versus Single-Issue Offers 95
Mesos: Multiple Equivalent Simultaneous Offers 95
Contingent Contracts 98
Pre-Settlement Settlements (Press) 100
Post-Settlement Settlements 100
Focal Points And Turning Points 101
Decision-Making Model Of Integrative Agreements 102
Resource Assessment 102
Assessment Of Differences 103
Offers And Trade-Offs 103
Acceptance/Rejection Decision 103
Prolonging Negotiation And Renegotiation 103
Chapter Capstone 104
Part Ii Negotiation Skills 105
Chapter 5 Understanding Personality And Motivation 105
Individual Differences 105
Implicit Theories 106
Acoustic And Visual Cues 106
“Big 5” Personality Traits 106
Psychopathic Personality Traits 107
Dyadic Interaction 107
Attachment Style 107
Motivational Orientation 108
Cooperative Negotiator 108
Competitive Negotiator 111
Individualistic Negotiator 111
Strategic Issues Concerning Motivational Style 112
Gender And Negotiation 114
Economic Outcomes 114
Opening Offers 115
Initiating Negotiations 116
The Backlash Effect 117
The Costs Of “Leaning In” 117
Lying And Misrepresentation 118
Discrimination 118
Gender And Third-Party Dispute Resolution 119
Leveling The Playing Field 119
Chapter Capstone 121
Chapter 6 Managing Emotions And Contentious
Negotiations 123
Emotions 123
Genuine Versus Strategic Emotion 124
Anger 127
Disappointment 129
Sadness 129
Ambivalence 130
Positive Emotion 130
Happiness 132
Emotional Consistency 132
Emotional Intelligence 132
Managing Emotions At The Table 134
Disputes 136
Interests, Rights, And Power Model 137
Time Course Of Interests, Rights, And Power 139
Strategic Issues Concerning Interests, Rights, And Power 140
Refocusing 141
High Costs Associated With Power And Rights 144
When To Use Rights And Power 144
How To Use Rights And Power 145
Social Dilemmas 146
Social Dilemmas In Business 146
Prisoner’s Dilemma 146
Actual Behavior In Dilemmas 148
Tit-For-Tat 148
Inducing Trust And Cooperation In Social Dilemmas 148
Restoring Broken Trust 151
How To Encourage Cooperation In Social Dilemmas When Parties
Should Not Collude 152
Chapter Capstone 152
Chapter 7 Establishing Trust And Building
Relationships 154
Money Versus Relationships 154
Subjective Value 155
Rapport 155
Sequential Negotiations And Bargaining History 157
Trust And Temptation 157
Trust Propensity 158
Three Types Of Trust In Relationships 158
Building Trust: Rational And Deliberate Mechanisms 161
Building Trust: Psychological Strategies 164
Distrust And Suspicion 168
Repairing Broken Trust 169
Relationships In Negotiation 170
Negotiating With Friends 173
Negotiating In Exchange Relationships 176
Multiplex Relationships 178
Chapter Capstone 180
Chapter 8 Power, Ethics, And Reputation 181
Power 182
Sources Of Power 182
Batnas As Power 182
Symmetric Versus Asymmetric Power 184
Perspective-Taking 184
Powerlessness 184
Status 185
Status And Negotiation Performance 185
Primary Status Characteristics 186
Secondary Status Characteristics 186
Negotiation Ethics 186
Seven-Factor Model Of Ethically Questionable Behavior 187
Lying 190
Bad-Faith Bargaining 194
Good-Faith Bargaining 194
Sins Of Omission And Commission 194
Bidding Wars 195
Detecting Deception In Negotiation 196
Making Ethical Decisions 196
Responding To Unethical Behavior 198
Reputation 199
Halos And Forked-Tails 199
Reputations In Negotiation Communities 200
Distributive Versus Integrative Reputation 201
Batnas And Reputations 201
Reputations And Self-Serving Views 201
Chapter Capstone 201
Chapter 9 Creativity, Problem Solving, And Learning In
Negotiation 202
Creativity In Negotiation 202
Test Your Own Creativity 203
Mental Models Of Negotiation 207
Haggling 207
Cost-Benefit Analysis 207
Game Playing 208
Partnership 208
Problem Solving 208
Creative Negotiation Agreements 209
Fractionating Single-Issue Negotiations Into Multiple Issues 209
Pattern-Finding 209
Expanding The Pie 210
Bridging 210
Cost Cutting 210
Nonspecific Compensation 211
Structuring Contingencies 211
Improving Negotiation Skills 215
Relationships, Contracts, And Learning 215
Negotiation Skills Training 215
Bilateral Versus Unilateral Training 216
Feedback 216
Learning Versus Performance Goals 217
Prevention Versus Promotion Goals 218
Easy Versus Difficult To Learn 219
Analogical Training 219
Counterfactual Reflection 220
Incubation 220
Rational Problem-Solving Model 221
Brainstorming 222
Negotiation Engineering 222
Chapter Capstone 223
Part Iii Complex Negotiations 227
Chapter 10 Multiple Parties, Coalitions, And Teams 227
Multiparty Negotiations 228
Key Challenges Of Multiparty Negotiations 229
Strategies For Successful Multiparty Negotiations 233
Coalitions 235
Challenges Of Coalitions 235
Maximizing Coalitional Effectiveness 240
Principal–Agent Negotiations 241
Disadvantages Of Agents 242
Working Effectively With Agents 244
Constituent Relationships 245
Challenges For Constituent Relationships 246
Improving Constituent Relationships 249
Team Negotiation 249
Challenges That Face Negotiating Teams 251
Improving Team Negotiation 252
Intergroup Negotiation 254
Challenges Of Intergroup Negotiations 254
Optimizing Intergroup Negotiations 256
Chapter Capstone 259
Chapter 11 Cross-Cultural Negotiation 260
Learning About Culture 261
Defining Culture 261
Prototypes Versus Stereotypes 261
Iceberg Model 262
Cultural Frameworks 262
Hofstede Model 262
Implications For Negotiation 269
Tripartite Model Of Culture 270
Tight Versus Loose Cultures 276
Challenges Of Intercultural Negotiation 277
Creating Value 277
Claiming Value 277
Sacred Values And Taboo Trade-Offs 277
Biased Punctuation Of Conflict 280
Ethnocentrism 281
Affiliation Bias 281
Faulty Perceptions Of Conciliation And Coercion 281
Naïve Realism 282
Cultural Intelligence 283
Cq Model 283
Advice For Cross-Cultural Negotiations 284
Anticipate Differences In Strategy And Tactics 285
Perspective Taking 285
Perceptions Of Power 286
Attribution Errors 286
Respect 288
Emotion 289
Perceptions Of Time 290
Acculturation Framework 290
Chapter Capstone 292
Chapter 12 Negotiating In A Virtual World 293
Place-Time Model Of Social Interaction 293
Face-To-Face Communication 294
Same Time, Different Place 296
Different Time, Same Place 299
Different Place, Different Time 299
Information Technology And Effects On Social Behavior 303
Trust 303
Deception 303
Status And Power: The “Weak Get Strong” Effect 304
Social Networks 305
Risk Taking 306
Relationships And Rapport 307
Mentalizing 308
Intergenerational Negotiation 308
Enhancing Technology-Mediated Negotiations 311
Initial Face-To-Face Experience 311
One-Day Video conference/Teleconference 312
Schmoozing 312
Proactive Medium Management 313
Humor 313
Chapter Capstone 314
Appendix 1 Negotiating A Job Offer 315
Preparation 315
Focus On Your Interests 316
Research The Company And The Industry 317
Determine Your Batna And Your Reservation Point 317
Research The Employer’s Batna 317
Determine Your Target Point And Plan Your Opening Offer 318
Prepare Several Scenarios 318
Consider Getting A “Coach” 319
Rehearse And Practice 319
In Vivo: During The Negotiation 319
Think About The Best Way To Position And Present Your
Opening Offer 319
Assume Their Offer Is Negotiable 320
Put The Focus On How You Can Solve Their Problems Versus
Making Demands 321
Don’t Reveal Your Batna Or Your Reservation Point 322
Imagine Negotiating On Behalf Of Someone Else
(Not Just Yourself) 322
Post-Offer: You Have The Offer, Now What? 322
Think Before Posting Anything On Social Media 322
Do Not Immediately Agree To The Offer 323
Get The Offer In Writing 323
Be Enthusiastic And Gracious 323
Assess The Interviewer’s Power To Negotiate With You 323
Do Not Negotiate If You Are Not Or Could Not Be Interested 323
Exploding Offers 324
Do Not Try To Create A Bidding War 324
Know When To Stop Pushing 324
Use A Rational Strategy For Choosing Among Job Offers 324
State Exactly What Needs To Be Done For You To Agree 325
Appendix 2 Third-Party Intervention 326
Third-Party Dispute Resolution 326
Mediation 326
Arbitration 327
Mediation–Arbitration 328
Arbitration–Mediation 329
Choices In Third-Party Intervention 329
Outcome Versus Process Control 330
Formal Versus Informal 330
Invited Versus Uninvited 330
Identifiable Versus Anonymous 330
Interpersonal Versus Intergroup 330
Content Versus Process Orientation 331
Facilitation, Formulation, Or Manipulation 331
Third-Party Effectiveness 331
Hostile Mediators 331
Mediation And Gender 332
Mediation And Culture 332
Mediation And Mimicry 332
Challenges Facing Third Parties 332
Meeting Disputants’ Expectations 332
Reaching Settlement (If A Positive Bargaining Zone Exists) 333
Promoting A Pareto-Efficient Outcome 333
Promoting Outcomes Perceived As Fair (In The Eyes
Of Disputants) 333
Consistency 334
Simplicity 334
Justifiability 334
Generalizability 334
Satisfaction 334
Empowering Parties In The Negotiation Process 334
Debiasing Negotiators 335
Maintaining Neutrality 336
Enhancing The Effectiveness Of Third-Party Intervention 337
Accept Your Share Of Responsibility 337
Test Your Own Position 337
Role-Play A Third Party In Your Own Dispute 337
Training In Win–Win Negotiation 337
Name Index 338
Subject Index 355